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I consider it a dangerous misconception of mental hygiene to assume that what man needs is equilibrium or homoeostasis a tension less state. What man actually needs is the striving and struggling for some goal worthy of him. The ordered prioritized life is lived with much less stress, because it proceeds step by step. Progression and accomplishment are its traits. The disordered life is lived in misfits jerks, omissions, relapse and hesitations. How can you say it is finished if you don't know what you are doing? There is no miserable human being than one in whom nothing is habitual but indecision. The greatest discovery in our history is that human being by changing the inner attitudes of their minds can change all the outer aspects of their lives.

Power tends to corrupt and absolute power corrupts absolutely (Lord Action). "Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power" (Abraham Lincoln). Power really is a test of character. In the hands of a person of integrity, it is of tremendious benefit; in the hands of a tyrant, it causes terrible destruction. By itself, power is neither positive or negative. And it not the source of security or success, beside all dictators. Even benevolent ones eventually lose power.

One of the most common mistakes and one of the costliest is thinking that success is due to some genius, some magic, something or others we do not possess. (Maltbie D. Babcock). Success is : knowing your purpose in life, growing to reach your maximum potential and sowing seeds that benefit others. Everyone has his own specific vocation or mission in life. Everyone must carry out a concrete assignment that demands fulfilment, there in he cannot be replaced, nor can his life be repeated. Thus everyone's task is as unique as his specific opportunity to implement it.(psychologist Viktor Frankl). Many people let everyone around them decide their agenda in life. As a result, they never really dedicate themselves to their purpose in life. They become Jack of all trades master of none, rather than a jack of few trades focused on one. There can be no success without sacrifice, if you desire to accomplish little, sacrifice little. But if you want to accomplish great things be wil...

Your dispositions, aptitudes and attitudes reflects your intention. Your intention creates the reality that you experience. Until you become aware of this, it happens unconsciously, therefore be mindful of what you project. That is the first step towards your authentic power. ****************************************** Goals helps us to focus our lives by concentrating efforts in a specific direction. It reminds me of the focused power of light that has been harnessed as a laser beam. Unlike normal beams of light that settles their light delicately around a room. The laser beam is so focused that it can hit a four foot target as far away as the moon with precise accuracy. It can cut a hole through a sheet of metal because its power is so concentrated and foused ****************************************** Under hypnosis or mono-Deism (intense concentration on a single idea). You can do all sorts of things that you are usually unable to do when your mind is unfocused. Under hypnosis th...

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As far as possible be in good terms with all people, speak the truth quietly and clearly, listen carefully to others, even the dull and ignorant, they too have a life story Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexations to the spirit. Never compare your self to others, for there will always be greater and lesser persons to you Enjoy you achievements as well as your plans, keep interested in your own career, however be humble for it is a real possession in changing the fortunes of time. The level of your thought must be higher than your present level or status in other to experience a raise in level or status. (By maranatha Oye)· Be true to your self, do not feign affection neither be cynical or blinded by love, for in the face aridity and disenchantment it is as perennial as the grass. Find somebody to love, love what you do and always be excited about your future. When you find love give nothing but love, yet add none in return. Nurture the strength of yo...

The best business have great leaders and great leaders know it's in their power to constantly supports and lifts others around them. Great leaders inspire others to become more especially when times are tough. It is in these times that leadership should show up in a leader even when you may feel you have more reason than anyone else to be stressed and on a Short fuse. It is especially important at times like these that you show courage, share your power and inspire your people to push through, and remember to share a laugh and make it clear that no matter what happens, you'll be steady and in charge. Thats what great leadership is. Leadership involves applying many of the ideas which are: 1. Commitment 2. Honesty 3. Care 4. Strong values 5. Uniqueness etc. To be a successful leader, however you also need to lead people to where you want to go.  But this can't be done without helping them get where they want to go at the same time. Central to achieving this...

Treat every one you meet very important, this is a pretty useful piece of advice. Whenever you meet someone who is not on your own social and economic level. Respect is the key word. There is never any reason to show disrespect even to your employee, no matter who they are. Even though someone may not know as much as you, have as much money as you, be as old as you, or have a strong personality as you, respect for EVERY individual is a must. Note that gender, ethnicity, colour, religion, are not the basis for treating anyone as different. It is as much a question of your personal foundations as it is to managing people. In fact, the more authority and power you have, the more you need to respect other's feelings and situations. It is part of being a great leader. Consistency is the key, It's no good to be respectful only when you're feeling good.

If you become a master at your trade, you will be able to do it better and quicker than anyone else, and this will build your reputation. Get a reputation for speed and urgency, and you'll be amazed how it will repay you. Moving fast allows you to take opportunities you might otherwise miss, it minimizes the cost of on going problems, and it instil passion and urgency in your staff. It is essential because if you don't act quickly on things that matters, your life and business will stagnate. If it needs doing tomorrow do it today and then get onto the next task To become rich, your long term goal is to become self employed, owning and operating your own businesses. Having this mentality before you embark on this is important because without it you are going to find the transition very difficult. To become rich you must become a master of recognizing peoples needs and desires, and of finding ways to satisfy them. If you can consistently do that quicker, cheaper, better and m...

Failure is there to make us better, wiser, smarter, more cautious, or even more adventurous. Be realistic about failure and you'll see that it is a tremendous opportunity. You can even become excited about it. Failing gives you the information you need to do better. Most acts of genius comes after years of trying to solve a problem and failing. Yet their ability to learn from their failures has literally created the world we live in today. So how do you make failure your greatest friend? if your back is in a corner, you have no choice but to fight your way out. When you are confronted by failure, you have to act. It's usually at these times you will find breakthrough solutions you would never have considered otherwise. Failure is a wonderful catalyst for change, few of us loves changing for change's sake, usually we have to proceed to accepting it. The discomfort of failure and desperate times, the dry mouth, the anxiety, the knot in the stomach are all motiva...

If you wallow in your failure, change your focus and spend a moment contemplating the problems of others in the world. You will suddenly realize that what seemed catastrophic for you doesn't compare with other's problems. Focus on somebody else's problem and work on it, help them to solve it and you'll get a great sense of what's positive about where you are and where you can go. You can also create this mental transformation by looking at what you've achieved to get this far. Stop and reflect on what you have done and give your self a small pat on the back. Everyone's history is full of great solutions to difficult problems. In difficult times, review your past and, draw strength from all those creative decisions you made. It will instantly reduce some of the stress and anxiety and give you a confidence in your ability to come out on top. When a problem is trying to take over your life, try to distance yourself away from it for a while. Catch a movie, ...