If you want to better yoursef and your personality, here are some suggestions. Do one thing at a time, shoot for one goal at a time. Live in the present; grasp today fully. Forget the mistakes of yesterday; let them be gone forever. Stop nagging yourself and others. Seek self improvement earnestly. Cultivate self respect through a honest self-appraisal. Learn to listen to others, it liberates you from been bias. Reach out for your goals; If at first you dont succeed, try again. Venture into conversations, do not be timid even if you make a mistake. Exercise imagination and initiative to achieve success. Keep your self image regulated, let it pulse and enthusiasm never fall with despair. Finally: Never forget to spend a moment every day thanking God that you can feel great about your self.