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The power of building healthy relationships

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It is vital that you invest all the time and emotion necessary to build and maintain a high quality home life. When your family is solid and secured, characterised by warm loving relationships, you will do better in every thing else in the outer world. But if something goes wrong in your home due to lack of attention or neglect, it will soon affect your your results at work in a negative way. Problems at home distracts your attention and drain your energy. They can often sabotage your career. Resolve to be a relationship expert, always treat people with kindness, courtesy, and compassion . Practice the golden rule " Do unto others as you will have them do unto you". Above all, the simplest strategy is to treat everyone you meet at home or at work like a "million Dollar customer". Treat other people as though they are the most important people in the world. Teat them as though they are capable of buying a million dollar worth of your product and service. Everyd...

The power of keeping the right relationship

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Everything worthwhile takes a long time and a lot of work to accomplish. To achieve something that you have never achieved before, you must become someone that you have never been before. In most areas of life it is more  hardwork and dedication than natural ability and talent that lead to excellence and great success. Everything in life is relationship. Every thing you accomplish or fail to accomplish will be bound up with other people in some way. Your ability to form the right relationship with the  right people at every stage of your life and career will be the critical determinant of your success and achievement and will have an inordinate impact on how quickly your achieve your goals. The more people you know and who knows you in a positive way, the more successful  you will be at anything you attempt .One person at the right time in the right place can open a door for you that can change your life and save your years of hard work. Make  it a part of y...

The story of every common man

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The uncommon man is merely the common man, thinking and dreaming success and in more fruitful areas. One of the qualities of the most successful people is that at certain point in their careers they decided to commit to excellence. They decided to be the best at what they do, they decided to pay the any price, make any sacrifice, and invest any amount of time necessary to become very good in their chosen field, and as a result of this decision, they pulled away from the pack of average performers and moved themselves upward into the income category where today they earn three, four, fives and even ten times as much as their peers who have not make this commitment. Every one who is doing well today was once doing poorly . Every one who is at the front of the buffet line of life started at the back of the line. Whatever others have done within reason, you can do as well. No one is better than you and no one is smarter than you, people are just better and smarter in different areas.

How To deal with Life

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Between you and anything you want to accomplish there is a constraint, or a limiting factor that determines how fast you get to where you want to go. This bottleneck or choke point becomes the constraint that determines how fast you will get to your destination. The speed at which you pass through this bottleneck will largely determine the speed of your entire journey. Your ability to remove this bottleneck or deal with this limiting factor can help you move ahead faster than perhaps any other step you can take. Never be a doubter, the primary antidote to doubt and fear are courage and confidence. The higher your level of forage and confidence, the lower will be your levels of fear and doubt and less effect these negative emotions will have on your performance and behaviour.

Gratitude and Thank you quotes

“ “No duty is more urgent than that of returning thanks.” –James Allen “ “Some people grumble that roses have thorns; I am grateful that thorns have roses.” –Alphonse Karr “ “Give thanks for a little and you will find a lot.” Hansa Proverb   “ “The only people with whom you should try to get even are those who have helped you.” –John E Southard   “ “I feel a very unusual sensation – if it is not indigestion, it must be gratitude.” –Benjamin Disraeli   “ “We can only be said to be alive in those moments when our hearts are conscious of our treasures.” –Thornton Wilder   “ Saying thank you is more than good manners. It is good spirituality. –Alfred Painter   “ “Appreciation is a wonderful thing. It makes what is excellent in others belong to us as well.” -Voltaire   “ “The essence of all beautiful art is gratitude.” –Friedrich Nietzche   ...

Instructions for life: By the yard it's hard; but inch by inch anything is a cinch.

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There is no road that is too long to the man who advances deliberately and without undue haste, there are no honours too distant to the man who prepares himself for them courtesy patience (Jean De la bruyere). By the yard it's hard; but inch by inch anythingThere is no road that is too long to the man who advances deliberately and without undue haste, there are no honours too distant to the man who prepares himself for them courtesy patience (Jean De la bruyere) By the yard it's hard; but inch by inch anything is a cinch. When you make a firm commitment to achieve a particular goal, and you put aside all excuses it is very much like stepping on the accelerator of your subconscious mind. You will be more creative, determined, and focused than before. Great men and women are those who make clear, unequivocal commitments and then refuse to budget from them, no matter what happens. The person interested in success  has to learn in view failure as a healthy, inevitable part ...

The power of self honesty

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The power of self honesty If you want to be the best you  can and achieve what is truly possible for you, you must be brutally honest about your self about your point of departure. You must sit down and analyse your self in detail to decide exactly where you are today in each area. See your self as a "bundle of resources" capable of doing many different things. You have a wide variety of skills, abilities, knowledge, talents, education and experience. There are many jobs and tasks that you could do or earn to do extremely well. Never allow yourself to get locked into a particular course of action especialy if you are not happy with the way your career is today.

How To Dress.

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If you want to be one of  the top people in your business, dress like the top people. Groom youself like the top people. Organise your work, habits, the way they do. Pick the most successfull people in your field and use them as your role models. If possible, go to them and ask them for advice on how to get ahead more rapidly. One of the best way to do this is to read their book or any of their materials, listen to their tapes. When you start to start to walk, talk, dress, and behave like the top people, you soon begins to feel like the top people. You will treat people like the top people do. You will work the  way top people work, you will start to get the results that the top people get, in no time at all you will be one of the top people your self.            Thanks, from Maranatha

You Are Better off

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No one is better than you and no one is smarter than you. People are just smarter or better in different areas at different times. Successful people look for the good in every situation. No matter every how many reversals and setbacks they expereience, they expect to to get something good out of every situation that happens to them. They believe that every setback is part of a great plan that is moving them inexorably towards achieving the great success that is inevitable for them.

Attention is the key of life. Wherever your attention goes, your life goes as well.

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The only thing that stands between a man and what he wants from life is often merely the will to try it and faith to believe that it is possible (Richard M. Devos) The greatest revolution of our generation is the discovery that individuals by changing their inner attitudes of mind, can change the outer aspects of their lives. All improvement in your life  comes from changing your beliefs about youself and your possibilities. Personal growth comes from changing our beliefs about what you can do and about what is possible for you. As it happens, your belief about your self are largely  subjective. They are often not based on fact at all, they are the results of information you have taken in through out your life and the way you have processed that information. Your belief have been shaped and formed by your early childhood, your friends and associates, your reading and education, your expereience both positive and negative and a thousand other factors. The worst of all b...

God is Great.

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Tips for success. Have a burning desire for what you want.

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Be sure that as you scramble up the ladder of success, it is leaning against the right building (Steven Covey). Your aim should be to deliberately and systematically create the cicumstance that raise your self esteem in every thing you do. You should live your life as if you were, already the outstanding person you intend to be sometime In the future.. There is one quality which one must  have in posession to win,  and that is definiteness of purpose, the knowledge of what one wants, and a burning desire to posses it(Napoleon Hill)