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The power of keeping the right relationship



Everything worthwhile takes a long time and a lot of work to accomplish.
To achieve something that you have never achieved before, you must become someone that you have never been before. In most areas of life it is more  hardwork and dedication than natural ability and talent that lead to excellence and great success.

Everything in life is relationship. Every thing you accomplish or fail to accomplish will be bound up with other people in some way. Your ability to form the right relationship with the  right people at every stage of your life and career will be the critical determinant of your success and achievement and will have an inordinate impact on how quickly your achieve your goals.
The more people you know and who knows you in a positive way, the more successful  you will be at anything you attempt .One person at the right time in the right place can open a door for you that can change your life and save your years of hard work.
Make  it a part of you to always associate with the right kind of people that you like, admire, respect and want to be like sometime in near time. Associate with the  kind of people that you look up to and would be proud to introduce to your Friends and associates, the choice of a positive goal oriented reference group can do more to supercharger your career than any other factor.

Make no useless aquitances, if you are really serious about being the best and moving to the top of your field. You cannot afford to spend your time with people who are going nowhere in their lives, no matter how nice they are. In this Case, you must be for once selfish with regards to yourself and your future ambitions. You must set high standard for your friends and associates and refuse to compromise.
Many people gets into bad relationship and forms useless friendships early in their careers. This normal and natural, nothing is wrong with making mistake especially if you are young and inexperienced. But it is unforgivable to continuously stay in a situation that is holding you back from realising your full potential, and your choice of the people you associate with have more of an impact on what you become than any other single factor.











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