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Two groups of people. Unfortunately not everyone will want to celebrate with you when your dreams begins to become a reality. I think you will find out that people will fall into two groups.

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Unfortunately not everyone will want to celebrate with you when your dreams begins to become a reality. I think you will find out that people will fall into two groups. Firefighters : These people want to put out the fire that you have for your dream. No matter what you have, they are against it. The way these kind of people criticize everything, you would think they get paid for it and nothing you do or say can change their attitude. Firelighters : These people want to help you and are willing to do what they can to stake the flame of your success even higher.

Basic Truths. A blind man's world is bounded by the limits of his touch; an ignorant man's world by the limit of his knowledge

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A blind man's world is bounded by the limits of his touch; an ignorant man's world by the limit of his knowledge, a great man's world by the limits of his vision. If your vision, your dream is great, then so is your potential for success (E. Paul Hovey). I firmly believe that man's finest hour, his greatest fulfilment to all he holds dear is that moment when he has worked his heart out in a good cause and lies exhausted on the field of battle victorious. (Vince Lombardi). Dreams are more easily shot down because if they are attacked, close friends or family members are usually the attackers since they are the only ones who knows about them. Our hopes and desires may be able to weather the criticism of a stranger, but they have a more difficult time surviving when undermined by a loved one.

Helpful Tips: The past is a dead issue and we can't gain any momentum moving towards tomorrow if we are dragging the past behind us

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The past is a dead issue and we can't gain any momentum moving towards tomorrow if we are dragging the past behind us (pastor Jack Hayford). He who does not look ahead remains blind (Spanish proverb). You make a living by what you get, but you make a life by what you give. The purpose of human life is to serve, and to show compassion and the will to help others (Albert Schwitzer). Success is waking up in the morning, whoever you are, wherever you are, however old or young and  out of bed because there is something out there that you love to do, that you believe in, that you are good at, something bigger than you are, and you can hardly wait to get at it again today (Columnist Whit Hobbs). You can't fulfill your purpose and grow towards your potential if you dont know what direction you should be going. You need to identify and sail towards your destination. You need to discover your dream. A person who has a dream knows what he's willing to give up in o...

The state of man. The greatest discovery in our history is that human being by changing the inner attitudes of their minds can change all the outer aspects of their lives.

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I consider it a dangerous misconception of mental hygiene to assume that what man needs is equilibrium or homoeostasis a tension less state. What man actually needs is the striving and struggling for some goal worthy of him. The ordered prioritized life is lived with much less stress, because it proceeds step by step. Progression and accomplishment are its traits. The disordered life is lived in misfits jerks, omissions, relapse and hesitations. How can you say it is finished if you don't know what you are doing? There is no miserable human being than one in whom nothing is habitual but indecision. The greatest discovery in our history is that human being by changing the inner attitudes of their minds can change all the outer aspects of their lives.

Power. Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power.

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Power tends to corrupt and absolute power corrupts absolutely (Lord Action). "Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power" (Abraham Lincoln). Power really is a test of character. In the hands of a person of integrity, it is of tremendious benefit; in the hands of a tyrant, it causes terrible destruction. By itself, power is neither positive or negative. And it not the source of security or success, beside all dictators. Even benevolent ones eventually lose power.

Road to Success. If you want to accomplish great things be willing to sacrifice much.

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One of the most common mistakes and one of the costliest is thinking that success is due to some genius, some magic, something or others we do not possess. (Maltbie D. Babcock). Success is : knowing your purpose in life, growing to reach your maximum potential and sowing seeds that benefit others. Everyone has his own specific vocation or mission in life. Everyone must carry out a concrete assignment that demands fulfilment, there in he cannot be replaced, nor can his life be repeated. Thus everyone's task is as unique as his specific opportunity to implement it.(psychologist Viktor Frankl). Many people let everyone around them decide their agenda in life. As a result, they never really dedicate themselves to their purpose in life. They become Jack of all trades master of none, rather than a jack of few trades focused on one. There can be no success without sacrifice, if you desire to accomplish little, sacrifice little. But if you want to accomplish great things be wil...

Words from Wisdom. Greatness is a product of goals being pursued and attained through self discipline.

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Your dispositions, aptitudes and attitudes reflects your intention. Your intention creates the reality that you experience. Until you become aware of this, it happens unconsciously, therefore be mindful of what you project. That is the first step towards your authentic power. ****************************************** Goals helps us to focus our lives by concentrating efforts in a specific direction. It reminds me of the focused power of light that has been harnessed as a laser beam. Unlike normal beams of light that settles their light delicately around a room. The laser beam is so focused that it can hit a four foot target as far away as the moon with precise accuracy. It can cut a hole through a sheet of metal because its power is so concentrated and foused ****************************************** Under hypnosis or mono-Deism (intense concentration on a single idea). You can do all sorts of things that you are usually unable to do when your mind is unfocused. Under hypnosis th...

Leadership begins with self awareness, leading yourself first before others. Leap Africa 2018

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Words of Wisdom: Many fears are born unnecessarily out of fatigue and loneliness.

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As far as possible be in good terms with all people, speak the truth quietly and clearly, listen carefully to others, even the dull and ignorant, they too have a life story Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexations to the spirit. Never compare your self to others, for there will always be greater and lesser persons to you Enjoy you achievements as well as your plans, keep interested in your own career, however be humble for it is a real possession in changing the fortunes of time. The level of your thought must be higher than your present level or status in other to experience a raise in level or status. (By maranatha Oye)· Be true to your self, do not feign affection neither be cynical or blinded by love, for in the face aridity and disenchantment it is as perennial as the grass. Find somebody to love, love what you do and always be excited about your future. When you find love give nothing but love, yet add none in return. Nurture the strength of yo...

What Great Leaders do! Great leaders inspire others to become more especially when times are tough.

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The best business have great leaders and great leaders know it's in their power to constantly supports and lifts others around them. Great leaders inspire others to become more especially when times are tough. It is in these times that leadership should show up in a leader even when you may feel you have more reason than anyone else to be stressed and on a Short fuse. It is especially important at times like these that you show courage, share your power and inspire your people to push through, and remember to share a laugh and make it clear that no matter what happens, you'll be steady and in charge. Thats what great leadership is. Leadership involves applying many of the ideas which are: 1. Commitment 2. Honesty 3. Care 4. Strong values 5. Uniqueness etc. To be a successful leader, however you also need to lead people to where you want to go.  But this can't be done without helping them get where they want to go at the same time. Central to achieving this...

Learn to show some respect ! Note that gender, ethnicity, colour, religion, are not the basis for treating anyone

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Treat every one you meet very important, this is a pretty useful piece of advice. Whenever you meet someone who is not on your own social and economic level. Respect is the key word. There is never any reason to show disrespect even to your employee, no matter who they are. Even though someone may not know as much as you, have as much money as you, be as old as you, or have a strong personality as you, respect for EVERY individual is a must. Note that gender, ethnicity, colour, religion, are not the basis for treating anyone as different. It is as much a question of your personal foundations as it is to managing people. In fact, the more authority and power you have, the more you need to respect other's feelings and situations. It is part of being a great leader. Consistency is the key, It's no good to be respectful only when you're feeling good.