The much higher cost. Happiness and personal contentment are your only worthwhile destinations.

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Do not be influence by others, no matter who they may be, unless their advice is consistent with your inner voice and feelings, and do not be fooled into buying  into somebody's else's dream (unless it goes in line with what you are dreaming of). It is very easy to follow others, but this won't give you the sense of personal fulfilment and satisfaction you need to be happy. Sticking to your dream and being true to your feelings may at times seem like a huge price. You may go backward financially or emotionally, but not being true to your self has a much higher cost than this short term investment.

Happiness and personal contentment are your only worthwhile destinations. This and nowhere else is where you are going.

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