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Leadership Begins with Self-Awareness

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Leadership Begins with Self-Awareness Knowing others is intelligence; Knowing yourself is true wisdom; Mastering others is strength; Mastering yourself is true power ~ Chinese proverb Probably one of the least discussed  leadership  competencies, ' self -  awareness'  is possibly one of the most valuable in Modern times. The leaders who actively work towards understanding themselves, not only become more effective, but also more emotionally intelligent; a skill considered essential for success. Self-awareness is the key to tap into your power to influence others and relate to them in the best way. In Leadership lessons by Mark Zuckerberg recently, he emphasised on the importance of 'making your own development a priority' for better leadership. He mentioned how he hired a coach to improve his leadership skills. Self - awareness, even though intangible, is a step by step gradual process to know the 'self' and requires self reflection, and genuin...

What Is Self-Awareness? (and 8 Ways to Become More Self Aware)

Having self-awareness means that you have a sharp realization of your personality, including your strengths and weaknesses, your thoughts and beliefs, your emotions, and your motivations If you are self-aware, it is easier for you to ​​​​​understand other people and detect how they perceive you in return. Many people assume that they have a healthy sense of self-awareness, but it is best to look at a relative scale to see where you fall on it compared to others. Being aware creates an opportunity to make changes in one's behavior and beliefs. While you develop self-awareness, your own personal thoughts and interpretations will begin to change. This change in mental state will also alter your emotions and increase your emotional intelligence, which is an important factor in achieving overall success. Becoming self-aware is an early step in the creation of the life that you want. It helps you pinpoint what your passions and emotions are, and how your personality can...

Life is all about perspective.

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You can transform the way  you expereince your failure by shifting your perspective. People believes the grass is always greener on the  other side of the fence. This isn't true, if it is greener it is usually because there is more stinking cow dung over there. Dont punish your self, you haven't picked the the toughest industry, and everyone else isn't doing it easier than you. You simply don't see what goes beneath that layer of green grass where the manure, the dirt, and the mess are doing their job. Everyone is paying the price and the greener the grass, the higher the price people have paid, that includes failure. Thanks for your views and comments. From Maranathatalks. Contact : +2348132337158                   Oyedele20@gmail.com

7 lies to success part two, check it out to know why it's a lie

In the area of personal communication, we say that THE MEANING OF COMMUNICATION IS THE RESPONSE YOU GET. If we try to tell someone we love them, and they get upset or hostile, the fact is, our communication may have been the trigger without our knowing it. By retaining responsibility, by changing our actions, we can change our communication-the power to change the result we produce. BELIEF #4: IT'S NOT NECESSARY TO UNDERSTAND EVERYTHING TO BE ABLE TO USE EVERYTHING. Achievers tend to be time misers-they exact the essence from a situation, take out what they need, and don't dwell on the rest. They know what's essential and what's not. I'll bet that if I asked you to explain how electricity works, you would come up with something between a blank and a sketchy answer. But you're quite capable of flicking the switch and getting the result called light. BELIEF #5: PEOPLE ARE YOUR GREATEST RESOURCE. Individuals of excellence almost universally have a ...

Success Mindset: How you decide to view and deal with setbacks is one thing that will separate you from the ones who truly fail.

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Successful people expect to fail, but do not see it as a load or a negative experience. They also realize that history is no reflection of the future. They know that if you have failed in the past, that doesn't mean you will necessarily fail in the future. On the other hand, they know the previous success does not guarantee your continued success, you need to keep working on it. How you decide to view  and deal with setbacks is one thing that will separate you from the ones who truly fail. How do you cope with stress and anxiety when things are not going your way? How do you stay committed and focused enough to find the answers and keep going?. It is tough but it is essential that you do, by continuing you give yourself the chance to reach the success you aimed for, "quit and you never will". Every successful person has had ups and downs. They may be due to cash flow changes in the market, a competitor's moves, business is about risk and change, so tough times ar...

The Seven lies of success part 1: EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON AND A PURPOSE, AND IT SERVES US.

THE SEVEN LIES OF SUCCESS Our beliefs are specific, consistent organizational approaches and fundamental choices about how to perceive our lives and thus how to live them. We don't know if our beliefs are true or false. What we can know, though, is if they work-if they support us. The word "lies" is used in this chapter as a constant reminder that we do not know for certain exactly how things are, and that no matter how much we believe in a concept, we should be open to other possibilities and continuous learning. I suggest you look at these seven beliefs and decide whether they're useful for you. I've found them time and time again in successful people I have modeled. And remember, modeling begins with modeling people's belief systems of excellence. BELIEF # 1: EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON AND A PURPOSE, AND IT SERVES US. Remember the story of W. Mitchell-this was his key belief. Successful people have an uncanny ability to focus on what is po...

Patience. One of the hardest decision you may have to make in life is to be patient

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Persistence pays

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Persistence pays!

The trick to Persistence. If you try something and it doesn't work, do not try again until you have figured out why you failed

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Life's way of testing your true beliefs is to make things difficult. The only thing you can do is persist. Once you have made the decision to persist, and you reach  the other side, simply pushing through a difficulty is never as bad as it seemed at the time. Although persistence is critical, however there is a bit more to it than simply persisting. You should never give up on your dreams, but if you know something just isn't working, it is vital to stop doing it and try a new approach. Persistence is important for success but it's essential to be open minded and flexible in how you set about achieving it. If you try something and it doesn't work, do not try again until you have figured out why you failed

Pay the price! In life, anything worthwhile comes for a price

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Passion is meaningless without commitment. Commitment is what takes a passionate dream and makes it real. It drives you to keep going despite the barrier in your way. Above all else, commitment means accepting what you have to do to reach your dream. In life, anything  worthwhile comes for a price. Paying the price means paying your dues in time, sweat, tears and discipline. We all must suffer from one of the two pains, the pains of discipline or the pain of regret. We must suffer the pain of discipline to achieve what we want or the pain of regret at not achieving it. The difference is that the pain of discipline weighs ounces, while the pain of regret weights tones. Take your self forward to the end of your life and imagine yourself in that weight of regret. It's not a pleasant thought. All it takes to shift that weight is some discipline and commitment now. Discipline will make your dreams real and make them real now. "There is a price for everything. You need to find ...

The Inequality in the distribution of the world's wealth

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Wealth Inequality ‘Crisis’ As Richest 1 Percent Account For Half The World’s Wealth DONATE NOW Global inequality has worsened since the millennium, with a NEW    finding: the richest 1 percent account for half of the world’s wealth. The world’s top 1 percent held 45.5 percent of all household wealth in 2000. Now, they hold 50.1 percent, according to Credit Suisse’s annual Global Wealth Report. The report highlights that Ultra High Net Worth Individuals (UHNWIs) – people who are worth more than $50 million – as being the driving force behind the gap. This group of wealth holders has grown five-fold since 2000. “While the bottom half of adults collectively own less than 1 percent  of total wealth, the richest decile (top 10 percent of adults) owns 88 percent of global assets, and the top percentile alone accounts for half of total household wealth,” the report said. It was also the wealthy who benefited from the global fortun...